Why I’m Team Receiving Line for Your Wedding

Real connection over forced poses

As a wedding photographer who leans into a documentary style I don’t usually advocate for anything that feels overly structured or staged. But let me tell you a secret: I love a good receiving line.

Wait. Emily, what?

Yes. I’m absolutely in favor of a good, old-fashioned receiving line—and here’s why.

Receiving lines are most underrated moment for meaningful connection.

In the whirlwind of your wedding day, it’s shockingly easy not to see every guest. You’ve invited your favorite people in the world, and somehow, there’s just not enough time to really connect with them all. A receiving line gives you the rare chance to hug your grandma, thank your high school bestie, and high-five your coworker all in the same 15 minute window. It’s structured, yes, but what happens within that structure is pure, candid magic.

This is also a great way to grab photos with all of the important people to you if you are not feeling the stress of formal family portraits.

It solves the “how do we greet everyone?” problem.

Without a receiving line, most couples end up bouncing from table to table during dinner or skipping bites of cake to chase down guests. It can feel chaotic and rushed. But a receiving line streamlines that greeting process. It also ensures that every guest gets a moment with you. Once

it’s done, you’re free to enjoy the rest of your evening without worrying about missing anyone.

It’s a goldmine for authentic, emotional photos.

This is where I light up behind the lens. The tears, the bear hugs, the little whispers of “we’re so happy for you”—it’s everything I love to document. It’s not posed. It’s not perfect. It’s just real. And that’s where the magic lives.

I've photographed receiving lines where I’ve caught a bride tearing up in her dad’s arms, a flower girl getting a high five from the groom, and a surprise appearance from a college roommate that turned into full-on squeals. These are the moments you’ll cherish forever—and they happen so fast you might not even remember them unless someone is there to freeze them in time.

Still want to keep things casual?

A receiving line doesn’t have to be stiff or traditional. You can do it walking out of the ceremony, at the start of cocktail hour, or even just as guests arrive at the reception. It’s flexible. It can be short and sweet. And it can totally reflect your vibe.

Bottom line? 

If you want more moments of true connection with the people you love—and beautiful, real images to remember them by—a receiving line can be one of the best choices you make.

Let’s bring them back.

Emily